Twenty-six hours into our relationship, Reba and I were on the couch at night watching the dystopian romantic comedy "Her" when we had our first fight. Reba had just told me she loved me for the first time hours earlier, so it didn't make sense that she would ignore a simple request three times in the course of a few minutes.
These conversation starters are a great way to break the ice! If you want to make sure to keep the conversation flowing at your get together, you can also create a conversation jar! A conversation jar can help you get beyond small talk and start a fun, unusual conversation! It assures that you have a few conversation starters in your back pocket.
At every stage of life, you hear questions over and over again. Another question that delves a little into the past. Each question has some commentary that might help with the questions but feel free to ignore the commentary if you want.
But feel free to keep it light and talk about humorous fears. There will be lots of chances for follow up questions. Not all girls are into fashion, but a fair of them are. Everyone gets asked the same questions over and over again. This will let you know how much she procrastinates as well as letting you know about what some of her goals are and what she finds important. Chances are she has a pretty good story about an amazing comeback. A question that just begs for creativity. But the good stuff about being a woman is great to ask questions about.
I added a bit of commentary about how to use each question and some possible ways to take the conversation. Our culture makes up a large part of who we are and she is no different. Perfect for getting to know her a little better.
A great question that she is sure to have plenty to say about. More of a serious question but it can be a really good beginning to a conversation. This is a rather silly question, but it can be a lot of fun. Or move the conversation into what books and movies she is into. If nothing else, this question will tell you how she views herself or who she wants to be more like.
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You can think of a lot of sentences that would have a lot of effects. You can pick and choose the ones you like or you can just ask them all. I love this question because it gets to the heart of who a person is or at least how they see themselves. Or you can ask her about what the telltale s for a good and bad person are.
However she wants to answer the question, remember to always ask why and find out more.
This one is a great question to find out more about how she views other people and what stereotypes she has. And I can almost guarantee there are some good stories about bad decisions to be had from both of you. You can read through the commentary or just skip it. What does she enjoy and what bores her? You can see what actually interests her versus what person she wishes she could be.
Encourage lots of details and ask lots of questions. I can almost guarantee this one will lead to a funny story. Especially with how popular post apocalyptic shows, movies, and books are. A couple of large philosophical questions wrapped up in a fun hypothetical question.
But you can see how much she is into social change and probably get a good idea of her political leanings. Perfect for getting to know a little bit more about her.
Conversation starters for any situation
To keep the conversation going; remember to ask more details about her story, ask about other random strangers that had an impact on her life, or tell her about a random stranger that had a big impact on your life. You can easily expand this question by bouncing different ideas off of each other and talking about the merits of each idea.
But really this question is more about starting an interesting conversation about society.
Especially if you two are into the post apocalyptic genre. Think of some more examples and try to think of what sentence would have the most impact or have the funniest outcome.
Just a he up though, this one can get real serious in a hurry depending on what memory she decides to share. A really fun and often funny question. Yep, we all do it. But I can almost guarantee that examples will leap to her mind when you ask her the question.
These questions will definitely get an interesting conversation going. Yep, be prepared for a conversation filled with landmines like religion and other strongly held beliefs. To further the conversation, you can ask her about what she thought of you the first time she saw or met you. Or you could chat about the merits and drawbacks of living indefinitely.
So yeah, lots to talk about. A question that can get really funny or really weird. This is usually good for a funny story. You can take it in a more humorous direction, get serious with it, or a bit of both. Who knows, you may share an unusual fear! You can talk about why the thing creeps her out and if she has any funny stories about the thing she is afraid of. See what you can come up with and see who has the craziest stories. Tired of the same old small talk questions?
So without further ado, here are our best list of unique questions to ask a woman to get to know here better. You can get pretty creative with it or you can answer it literally.
Try out secret hand shakes or high fives with elbows, you are only limited by your creativity. Whoa, what is this serious question doing here? Sometimes those things are silly and fun, sometimes they are more selfish or hurtful. This one is a bit more serious.
Where did the story come from?
There is a reason those quizzes are so popular on social media. You could talk about what makes a human a human. But whatever she chooses to talk about, we all love talking about things that annoy us and she will too! She might talk about a current fad or fashion, she might talk about a friend, really it could be anything.
This one is an easy one to expand into a long conversation, because you can discuss the merits of each strategy compared with each scenario. To expand the conversation, you might want to ask about if different time periods were better for different genders.
Your choice. I mean, there have literally been books written about this. So dive in on cultural matters and see where you both have similar viewpoints and where you differ.
But it can be a lot of fun to answer and can be quite thought provoking as well. Just remember to talk about each fact and not just fire off facts rapid fire. Oh procrastination. This first list of questions to ask a girl is a great place to start. For follow up questions you can ask about more examples or you can prompt her with activities to see which ones she finds tedious and which ones make time fly by. Enjoy the great conversation, you can thank me later!
This one might even give you a glimpse into the direction she wants to take her life in.
You could also move the topic into more serious fears if you wanted to get a bit deeper. This question is not one to be busted out lightly, so pick the right time or just skip it. Plus, you can tell any comeback stories you know. If you are severely grossed out by feminine body stuff you might be tempted to give it a pass.
Always good to know, and a lot fun think about as well. You could also talk about which characters are the most interesting or unique. You could split the question into two parts, which character do you wish you could be more like and which do you think you are actually like.