These topic are great to start off with because most girls have something to say about it.
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In fact, according to Forbes Magazine, effective communication just might be the single most important skill you could possibly learn! Sure, striking up a conversation with a beautiful woman can be intimidating, but on the flip side missing an incredible opportunity to make a connection just because you were too shy to approach her is wayyyy worse! This is a guest post by Claudia Cox, founder of Text Weapon. One of the easiest ways to strike up a conversation with a woman is to open with a compliment! A great compliment makes you seem kind, attentive, considerate and can lead to a great conversation. Genuine compliments go a long way toward inspiring trust.
Pretty wise for a junior high boy! This is really a great and timely post, Corey.
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Never be embarrassed of falling short. Everything is so simple. In an increasingly opinionated world, the skill of genuinely listening has become a lost art. You added some more good things to the list- thanks! You already have everything you need. With the right mindset, you can unveil your natural beauty. Perhaps this is just my personality, but I automatically like people who are unique, and I actually find it repellent to see a person who is slavishly following the fashion trends and apparently has no personality of their own. Great post Corey.
My main issue is the NOT feeling attractive. I think that we waste too much time wondering if we are attractive and comparing ourselves to others. No one likes to be around a grouch.
A simple shift in the way you walk will do wonders in how you are seen by others. I agree, nothing makes someone more unattractive then constant complaining and whining. The ability to look others in the eye displays a certain confidence. It also allows for a better connection with others.
These are all great ideas, which I try to live by. You can express the elegance you already possess as a human being, or you can barely glimmer. That, in turn, causes me to not smile, look people in the eye, and has a negative domino effect on most of those. Look up and observe the beauty of the world, and in turn you will radiate it. I think we also find, with age, that many of us are very attractive, but attractive in different ways.
Do everything in your power not to complain. Or is it more the attitude behind what you say? Changing your definition of what is attractive might be another thing to attempt. Embrace your true qualities; no one expects you to be perfect. This is one of my favorite posts ever. When you sincerely believe you are an attractive individual, those around you will think the same.
When you talk, really talk — and when you listen, really listen. While physical appearance plays a role, your thoughts and how you carry yourself are the dominant power behind attractiveness. Confidence goes a long way.
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Each of us overflows with natural beauty. And, according to my mother, lipstick fixes a bad hair day. Digital Detox Week. I have to get over myself and get on with my life as a woman, mom, wife as God made me.
Those who are true to themselves are inherently more attractive. Plus, a sense of humor is alluring. Now, there is a fine line between confidence and cockiness — always avoid the latter.
Great tips! Thank you Tania. When you talk, speak with authority. When you use these tips it creates a confidence which makes you extremely attractive. Here are ten free ways how. Be open to authentic relationships and watch the connections unfold.
I love how these dwell on who we BE as people, rather than only what is seen. What a great list! Your confidence will radiate and that attracts people.
When you allow others to connect with you, you instantly become more appealing. What a great post. Being real means accepting who you are and loving yourself as a result. My mom and dad said if you want to get to know someone keep your mouth shut, look them in the eye and really listen to what they have to say.
This is all quite true. Looking them in the eyes shows you care. When you feel attractive, you release attractiveness. Where would you be without debt?
When you laugh, you radiate an inner beauty. Combined with laughing, smiling is one of the easiest ways to radiate attractiveness.
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Complaining is like a rocking chair. How do you walk — with your head down? Suspend judgment, and open your heart and mind to listen. Did you know the most successful individuals are the ones that smile the most? Excellent post! Thank you for these tips!
2. being too neutral or too nice
Great ideas…and so true! At the end of the day, stand in front of a mirror and say all of your complaints to yourself, then think about how you could have solved them, or how it could have been worse. Instead, embrace each and every moment as a blessing. Only when you love yourself can you genuinely begin to love others. And as your self respect increases, so does your attractiveness — self respect is the best aphrodisiac there is.
Be confident and laugh and enjoy life! It is true that you are more attracted to people that are happy and you steer clear of the ones who are frowning. A lot of people hide their true self by putting on false persona. What a delightful article that deserves to be shared with friends.
I totally understand about not complaining, I mean who likes whiners, right? When you smile, you connect with everyone around you. And I have so much to be thankful for, which makes it all the sillier.
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I love this list. Amen, amen, amen!
One of my friends is kind of uptight and asked me for dating advice- I told her that if you make eye contact, smile, and be real no games! Awesome post! The above sound like great ideas to me. Thanks for this post! Acknowledge them. Do you keep that stuff to your self or is there a positive way to be honest without complaining or unload at least some of that?
2. tell a joke
When you do this, you not only obstruct your true self, you also create false relationships. Then day all the best things. Be real, open and willing, and watch your authentic relationships manifest themselves. We are all part of human race.