Every month I'll update you on the latest from Submissive Guide and you'll get first access to new resources, offers and events. I'm 33 and live in Iowa. Detailed analysis should wait for later, lol.
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I hope you picked up some new tips and thoughts from it. I love you lunaKM!
Also, I used to do chat transcripts of every topical chat, should this return and if so, do you want this chat submissive to be saved as a transcript? Feel free to chime in folks Massage, sex, affirmation, reassurance, ego boosts are common need communication, reassurance and ego boosting there can be different needs for different types of play and different times after play they may not chat their need for aftercare look at them straight in the eye and Thank them and tell them how much you love them, if that is the case Always communicate the need for aftercare before playing.
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I am in Iowa. I've been his slave for almost 9 years. What kind of aftercare might a Dom need if the scene is stopped with a safeword or some other abrupt ending? What other thoughts do you have about aftercare for dominants? Learn more with these related books.
Dominants also need to transition but rarely get their own aftercare because they are busy caring for their submissive. So let's summarize what we've learned Aftercare is physical and emotional adjustment and transition from playtime to after.
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SubguidePlus for our latest tips, tutorials and submissive tools! I believe Master makes sure he gets his aftercare! And we are totally connected in our power exchange. Encouragement that they gave you what you wanted, especially after very intense sadistic scenes good one Sometimes they need reassurance to know that what they did to the submissive was ok, massages, water, snuggles, encouragment, praise, and ego boosting What else do you think they need?
Please feel free to talk about the subject whenever a thought comes to mind, this is not a moderated talk and you do not have to ask permission to speak or ask a question. I used to be twistmahtiT and I always say thank you. I actually prefer no touching no speaking to me. What can we do to help encourage them to get some recovery time? Hello and welcome to another chat night here on Submissive Guide. Whether the session went well or poorly. Advertise on Submissive Guide.
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They must know that as a submissive you have not been harmed and that mistakes happen, and are understandable debriefing is important I use that a lot in my profession after very submissive situations where emotions are high hi vitahalls hi : I feel its necessary so that the parties involved know that although things were intense, not optimal or perhaps went bad, that the end result is what was desired The chat and connection is more important, though.
Massage, sex, sleep, affirmation that you enjoyed yourself, gratitude expressed, exercise Im asking about intensity of aftercare heck, just good sex means you might need a cuddle, a smoke and a drink that would depend on the person on the intensity of aftercare needed RM doenst go into domspace I always thank Master always everytime!
Why do you think that is? I am owned and collared by KnyghtMare, as his bitch and submissive, and in a poly group with lunaKM.
After I cuddle with pepper as the conclusion of a session, getting a massage from her is my aftercare. Me dom I get a bit of that with RM But I know him well enough now, I know what he needs for aftercare I call it "after-play service". Debriefing and lots of encouragement and connection! I think another can do it It could give the Dominant a confidence boost and may have other positive effects. Please be courteous to others and do not private message them without permission in public chat first.
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Hi, everybody. It will auto fill it out for you. I've encountered so many who take it for granted, I'm so glad to hear you guys and gals do not. Share whatever you feel comfortable sharing; age, experience level, the labels you apply to your submission sub, slave, pet, etc. It might also be that the goal is to get the submissive into a state, whatever state that is and the Dom doesn't chat of the metnal state they are in.
RM heres and feels my thanks a lot. Can you add anything to this description? Share ideas? I'm a something slave to KnyghtMare. Wanna chat and hang out with other submissives and their partners? Keep us submissive with your support. I have something else to add here. Do Dominants need aftercare? And when i'm in sub mode there is nothing I like better after play than going deep into my submission with service. I am service oriented and that usually hits the spot for RM i agree with littleone Can someone other than the partner administer aftercare?
Aftercare in a general sense is the physical and emotional care after play or scenes. I need it -- my arm is getting better but an hour with the flogger still makes it sing with pain. I've been involved in the lifestyle almost 8 years now, and still learning everyday!