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What you can say
Sometimes you bond with someone, or do something for them, or have a heart-to-heart, and they care for you once more. Someone who cares will tell you things.
So cherish the people who care about you, and do not invest your time, and your heart, into people who do not. But in their way, whatever that way is, they will listen. But then time passes, and if you can, you rectify the situation.
How you know someone cares
See you Friday. Caring is a fluid thing that can change over time. Someone who cares will not make you feel bad for taking up said time.
Sometimes there is no real reason. You may unsubscribe at any time. Maybe they have enough people in their life to care about.
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He did not ask a single question about me, but just talked about himself. The things you say make some sort of impact on them — your opinions make them think, or make them laugh. Occasionally, they are just a selfish and uncaring person.
What happens to them affects you, and their lack of care will hurt you. Beyond Worthyby Jacqueline Whitney. Someone who cares will listen.
Because when you care for someone, you invest in them. Although they might be busy, so are you. A person who cares about you will take time for you. Sometimes a person who once cared for you stops caring.
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But a person who cares will listen to you regularly, because your opinions matter to them. Not out of some sort of obligation, but because they genuinely want to know. Maybe you did something wrong, or distance separated you, or they changed as a person. They will forget you if you stop trying.
Some people share more than others, but someone who cares will tell you things that matter to them, no matter how small that thing is. You think about them, you wonder about them, perhaps not all the time, but they are there. Someone who cares will ask you how your day is.
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But there are also some people who never really cared for you, people who you know will never care for you, no matter what you do. You're in!
Sometimes you will be frustrated, or feel ignored, or accidentally ignore them, or fight. These words are for us all. Sometimes weeks or months might pass, but when it counts, if in your darkest hour you need them, they will respond, and will do so gladly. They will want to spend the time on you because that is just what you do when you care for someone. Because if you care about someone, they exist in your mind.
People are never perfect, so you will not always get along with the person who cares about you. Maybe they wanted to end your relationship, be it romantic, platonic, or familial. They will never consider your feelings, but instead think only of their own.
They like spending time with you.
They are so concentrated on their own pleasure that yours means nothing to them. Someone who cares wants to see you.